Are Women to picky in this day and age?

ok im a female im 14 almost 15 and i think guys are picky im not saying that some females aren't i agree with you but some guys are picky... to some of them girls cant be fat or ugly and some guys girls cant be to skinny. but i wont change for any one.... i wont try to change any one if i don't like how they are then its not to be...... i don't go by looks so please don't think that i do cause i go for the personality all the way.......... Write me on yahoo and add me yahoo answers if you want babygirlwbrains@yahoo.com please answer my ?........